I am sorry about hie death..
When you met people, you have to know always people parting because of death, moving, or
something else..
He might go heaven and he will be okay in the heaven..
Do not be depressed.
I am sorry...
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Mr. and Ms. Hutchson
Each and Every sad moments gives us a pain. Being a human being we have a lots of troubles and responsibilities. So If i am the close friend of Mr. and Ms. Hutchson i would just say that we are human being and try to concentrate your work and pretent that we never ever had a child.Be strong as possible as you can.
life goes on
I always went to visit Mr. and Mrs. Hutchenson after thier son had died. I knew they were both grow the corn at night , I knew they were still very painful when they lost their own son. They were sad , but the life goes on, so they kept the way which was they were living now. Every time I went there, we had a coffee or a dinner together,almost all the time ,we were being quiet.Many times, I didn't even know what could I talk to them.I went there one night, I saw them still went to plant the corn. I let them stop it, and started to tell them" I know you are very sad becouse you lost your son. but you know the life goes on, and both of you are still very health, please stop to doing the things to hurt yourselives or let you feel sad. I believe your son in heaven hope you are health and still happy in your life. please don't always be sad!Then your son would feel better when he knows in heaven." They started crying and not stoped it...
Monday, October 26, 2009
Letter for Mr and Mrs. Hutcheson
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Hutcheson
I know it is really hard to accept that feeling, a feeling of losing some one, the one that you love and you had put all of your hope into. I think that is the most difficult time for everyone to get over it, my dear friend. For me, I had been through it, I had lost some one I love, and I was so sad, and cant live without that person. At last, I realize that I should move forward. For that you won’t feel lonely, because you know there is something new will be happening in the future, and life is beautiful. I believe when the new day come, there are lot of thing will grow up, and life will come again. I hope you will feel better my dear friend, you still have some one around you, and they always care for you when you need them.
I know it is really hard to accept that feeling, a feeling of losing some one, the one that you love and you had put all of your hope into. I think that is the most difficult time for everyone to get over it, my dear friend. For me, I had been through it, I had lost some one I love, and I was so sad, and cant live without that person. At last, I realize that I should move forward. For that you won’t feel lonely, because you know there is something new will be happening in the future, and life is beautiful. I believe when the new day come, there are lot of thing will grow up, and life will come again. I hope you will feel better my dear friend, you still have some one around you, and they always care for you when you need them.
Living With Reality!
Living with the grief is never easy. It becomes worst for people who have only one love and willing to do anything for their love such as Mr. and Mrs. Hutcheson. If I am the one, who is close friend to them, I will help them partially dealing with their grief over the loss of their son. I will usually visit them and bring more friends to make some jokes and help them when they need. I also try to change their habits. I will give them some advice of travelling and enjoy their lives because they do not live very long, instead of working whole day and night long. I believe friends and time are the best way to help Mr. and Mrs. Hutcheson cope with the grief. I also tell them my opinion that "one day you will meet your son, but not yet. You have to live your life. And he want to see you in a good shape."
Sunday, October 25, 2009
To Say Condolence To Mr. And Mrs. Hutchinson
I am really sorry for your lost, I cannot say that I understand, how you feel exactly, because I do not have a kid, that is role of the world, and every body born and die. I know, it is difficult to forgot, we should forgot to continue our life. I hope that be your last grief in your life, and be happy always.
I am really sorry for your lost, I cannot say that I understand, how you feel exactly, because I do not have a kid, that is role of the world, and every body born and die. I know, it is difficult to forgot, we should forgot to continue our life. I hope that be your last grief in your life, and be happy always.
Thursday, October 22, 2009
will's died
if I am a close friend of that couple it will be very difficul to find the rigth word to sait but i will probabily try to tell them that every thing come from God . God can give and can take back . We need Will but God need him more than us . We just have to pray for him .He is know where all of us will be one day .
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
An advice
I think one of the most difficult things to deal with the dealth of the loved one is to get over it and admit that was really happened. If I were a close friend to Mr. Hutcheson, I would tell them "I'm sorry for your lost". Morevover, I would visit them regularly like their real daughter, told them to cope with it and took care of their health. Finally, I would tell them to go back to work and but their stress into work and they will forget the lost of their son when they come back to work as usual.
To The Mr. And Mrs. Hutcheson
I am so sorry about your son's event. I do not know how you feel exactly, but I understand that it is so hard to overcome easily. However, humans born and die someday as like everything has begining and ending. I think he went to the better place than here. So, do not worry about your son. He will be find. I suggest to meet many people, and try to overcome your sadness. I want to see your big smile as soon as possible.
An Advice
There is really not many options in the situation like that to advise. But of course one thing would really be helpful is truly express our feeling from the bottom of our heart. Even as simple as "I am very sorry for your loss" would be very appreciative. Thus advise would be just to take it easy, i mean not to rush with anything and try to get as much time as needed to get over the tragedy. Dont push this old couple because they really got lots of stress to cope with. A nice vacation would be helpful but i think they just need to do what they always have done work on the farm and eventually thing would go back to normal as they were or very close to how things were.
~Time Heals the deepest wounds.
~Time Heals the deepest wounds.
A letter to Mr and Mrs Hutcheson
Dear Mr and Mrs Hutchenson,
I just heard about the bad news about your son, I am so sorry to hear that. I can exactly
understand your feel now. however, I still want to say take easy about this. Now the most
important thing is keep yourselves healthy, and take care of each other. I believe it is also the
hope of your son. My suggestion is that you can take a trip now, and let your body and mind
take a break. When you feel better, come back to your place then go back to your normal life.
Best regards.
I just heard about the bad news about your son, I am so sorry to hear that. I can exactly
understand your feel now. however, I still want to say take easy about this. Now the most
important thing is keep yourselves healthy, and take care of each other. I believe it is also the
hope of your son. My suggestion is that you can take a trip now, and let your body and mind
take a break. When you feel better, come back to your place then go back to your normal life.
Best regards.
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
The Corn Planting
Imagine that you are a close friend of the Mr. and Mrs. Hutcheson. What advice would you give the Hutcheson’s in dealing with their grief over the loss of their son?
I am sorry for your lost. I can not say that I understand how you feel since I myself do not have a son. However, I lost my grandma a couple of years ago. I somewhat do understand how you feel to only a certain degree, but not fully. People born and die. It is part of life. There is nothing we're the living can do for the dead, but miss them dearly. However, I am sure that your great son would not want to know that you are grieving over the loss of him for long. He would want you to be happy and goes on with your life. Remember the good time, but live your life to the full and not living in the past. =]
I am sorry for your lost. I can not say that I understand how you feel since I myself do not have a son. However, I lost my grandma a couple of years ago. I somewhat do understand how you feel to only a certain degree, but not fully. People born and die. It is part of life. There is nothing we're the living can do for the dead, but miss them dearly. However, I am sure that your great son would not want to know that you are grieving over the loss of him for long. He would want you to be happy and goes on with your life. Remember the good time, but live your life to the full and not living in the past. =]
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